My cousin, Paul, much younger than I. I had contact intermitantly while you were growing up. Watching from afar while you visited Aunt Bernadette and Uncle Joseph in Seattle, USA. Then I heard you married and were living in London with a baby boy. Next I knew, you had moved back up to the Liverpool area and had 2 more children. Saw you once or twice over the years. Come to think of it, both times we met was becuase someone had died! You gave me information about our shared families as you had looked into the Rattray family tree. Then I heard about your cancer and we were more in contact than we had ever been. Up to last September when Dave and I visited your home and had a chance to meet your lovely family, I mean really take time to meet and share things with you and learn a little about your great kids. I am sad we didn't know each other better, but I am happy to have known you the little I did and to have had your life touch mine for just a little bit. I shall remember how you cared. Thank you Paul.